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City of Widows by Nadia Hashimi: A breathtaking portrait of survival under the Taliban

There are novels that entertain, and then there are novels that demand to be witnessed. City of Widows by Nadia Hashimi is firmly in the latter category—a sweeping, emotionally devastating, and ultimately hopeful story that puts human faces on the headlines many of us have long since stopped reading.

Nadia Hashimi tells an ambitious story that spans decades of Afghan history while remaining deeply rooted in the lives of individual women. The result is an absolutely riveting novel that is as suspenseful as it is heartbreaking. Despite its large cast of characters, dual timelines, and enormous historical scope, the story remains remarkably cohesive. Every thread contributes to a larger portrait of women fighting to preserve not only their lives, but also their dignity, their families, and their sense of self.

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Illinois, Women in the World

Stop apologizing for existing

Castle at Illinois State UniversityI recently started a new job at a large state university, and I have been a little disturbed by something I have witnessed since the students returned to campus last week. No, I’m not talking about how filthy the restroom outside my office is now (seriously, you’re supposedly adults: clean up after yourselves!) What I am talking about is how often I hear the young women in my vicinity apologizing for existing.

It happens to all of us, but especially to those of us who live or work in heavily populated areas where there are a lot of people coming and going. You step around a corner or go to open a door and almost run into someone who is coming toward you, heading in the opposite direction from which you are going. Neither of you has done anything wrong. You simply happen to be trying to exist in the same time and space, and each of you has a need to move in the opposite direction from the other. Not a big deal, right?

But the thing that bothers me about this common, everyday (sometimes every hour, when classes are letting out all at once) occurrence is that the males I am almost running into on a regular basis will usually say, “Excuse me,” while the females will invariably say, “I’m sorry.” Continue reading “Stop apologizing for existing” →