Education, Essays

Why boys are falling behind in school (and what Malcolm Gladwell’s hockey players can teach us about it)

I’ve been mulling over a theory about why boys, as a group, are falling behind in education. It’s not that boys are less intelligent or less capable—it might simply come down to timing. In Outliers, Malcolm Gladwell talks about a fascinating concept called the Relative Age Effect. He uses Canadian hockey players as an example: the best players are disproportionately born in the first few months of the year—January, February, and March. Why? Because the cutoff date for youth hockey leagues in Canada is January 1. That means kids born early in the year are almost a full year older (and therefore more developed) than those born later, like in November or December.

In Outliers: The Story of Success, Malcolm Gladwell explores what sets high achievers apart. Could his theory also explain why boys are falling so far behind?

Gladwell points out that this seemingly small age gap matters a lot when you’re eight or nine years old. The slightly older kids are usually bigger, stronger, and more coordinated. They look like “natural talents” to coaches, who then give them more ice time, more praise, and better training. Over time, those advantages snowball. The kids who were just a few months older end up becoming the elite players—not necessarily because they were born to be great, but because they were given more opportunities to become great.

I think something similar happens in school—especially for boys.

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Book Reviews, Find Your Next Read

Trad Wife by Saratoga Schaefer: A ferocious horror novel about motherhood, patriarchy, and the cost of being “good”

Trad Wife by Saratoga Schaefer is a horror novel that knows how to tell a gripping story while quietly dismantling the cultural myths propping it up. Scheduled to release on February 10, 2026, it’s the rare book that makes you start mentally planning your year-end “best of” list before you’re even finished reading. Trad Wife is an unsettling, deeply intelligent literary thriller that uses horror not just to disturb, but to say something urgent about womanhood, motherhood, and the performance of femininity in the age of social media.

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Camille Deming presents herself online as the ideal #tradwife: cooking from scratch, tending her homestead, centering her life around her husband and home. The problem is that she’s missing the one thing her followers—and the ideology she’s bought into—demand most: a baby. When Camille discovers a mysterious well behind her farmhouse and makes a wish, her desire is answered in ways that are grotesque, intimate, and impossible to undo. Her pregnancy brings skyrocketing engagement and validation, even as her body begins to change in frightening ways and her marriage quietly continues to rot.

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Essays, Memes, Pets

Six comments you’ll get when you share a cat story online (every damned time)

Last year, my sons brought a kitten into my house. He’s about eight months old now, and let’s just say he is not a snuggle cat. Pick him up? He cries like you’re assaulting him. Attempt to pet his face? He’ll try to bite your nose. Classic kitten chaos.

This is Charles. AKA Homer. AKA Peter. AKA Poor Richard Pepper Puss n Boots. He’s filed himself under M for Menace.

But recently… something magical happened. I got out of bed to pee, and he followed me into the bathroom. I sat down, and he started rubbing against my legs. I thought, “Wow, he actually wants me to pet him.” So I did. Then, in a move that shocked my entire soul, he put his paws on my knee like he wanted to be picked up. Pants down, of course, because timing is everything. I picked him up anyway. And then—brace yourself—he curled up into my lap (well, the bottom of my pajama top, not my actual naked lap, thank goodness) and snuggled in. I thought, great, now I have to sleep on the toilet tonight, don’t I?

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Author Interview

Nichelle Giraldes on feminist horror, writing what you want to read, and The Forest of Missing Girls

Stories don’t always begin with a lifelong dream of being a writer—sometimes they start with a reader who wants a book badly enough to create it themselves. In this interview, Nichelle Giraldes talks about finding her way to writing through that quiet, persistent pull of story; the power of small, precise details to carry enormous emotion; and why her work keeps circling back to the complicated ways women love, protect, and measure one another. We also discuss gothic horror, visual art as inspiration, cutting beloved scenes, and what it really means to keep showing up to the page long after the traditional markers of “success” have been reached.

Nichelle Giraldes’ latest novel, The Forest of Missing Girls, released November 11, 2025.

Q: What’s a memory of a story or book that made you realize you wanted to be a writer?
A: I was a reader long before I ever thought about being a writer. I was a total library kid growing up! The kind of child who had to have their books taken away at bedtime so I’d actually go to sleep instead of reading under the covers. Even then, I never had any aspirations or even interest in writing those stories myself.

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Book Reviews, Find Your Next Read

The Better Mother by Jennifer van der Kleut: A new mom’s nightmare of gaslighting, obsession, and control

There’s a particular kind of suspense novel that feels less like escapism and more like a psychological endurance test—and this is very much one of them. The Better Mother by Jennifer van der Kleut falls squarely into the latter category, delivering a fast-paced, anxiety-inducing suspense novel that taps into very real fears about boundaries, manipulation, and what happens when someone decides they know what’s best for your life better than you do.

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Savannah Mitchell is 34, freshly recovering from a devastating breakup, and finally feeling like she has her life back on track when a brief fling with a man named Max leaves her pregnant. When Savannah reaches out to tell him the news, he explains that he’s just reconciled with his ex-girlfriend, Madison, and needs time to break it to her. The twist comes quickly: Madison isn’t angry or resentful—she’s thrilled, eager to be involved, and insistent on helping Savannah through the pregnancy.

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Find Your Next Read

My 5 favorite books of 2025: Fierce, compelling, and unapologetically feminist

This year has been a phenomenal one for reading. I’ve devoured dozens of new releases, and after much deliberation, I’ve narrowed down my favorites to five books that I think are particularly telling of the age we live in. Each of these novels features women at the center of the story—some brilliant, some flawed, some delightfully deranged—and together, they paint a vivid picture of modern womanhood. These are all books I have actually read this year, reviewed, and vetted as an experienced author and book reviewer. There are undoubtedly other incredible 2025 releases I haven’t yet encountered, but these five stand out for me.

Salt Bones by Jennifer Givhan

Givhan’s novel is a dark, seductive thriller that stays with you long after the final page. I loved how she navigates grief, trauma, and memory with a sharp psychological lens. The female protagonist is both vulnerable and fierce, and there’s a subtle feminist undercurrent that interrogates how women navigate power and vulnerability in a patriarchal world.

Read now!

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A Serial Killer’s Guide to Marriage by Asia Mackay: Domestic bliss, but make it murderous

What happens when the thing that bonded you as a couple is the one thing you’re no longer allowed to do? A Serial Killer’s Guide to Marriage by Asia Mackay takes that question and runs with it—through marriage, parenthood, suburbia, and the quiet, suffocating boredom that sets in when two people stop working as a team. Readers who enjoyed This Girl’s a Killer will feel immediately at home here, thanks to the same blend of dark humor, moral ambiguity, and sharp observations about womanhood and rage.

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Hazel and Fox once believed they were made for each other. Not in a meet-cute, rom-com way, but in a far more specific sense: they are serial killers who take pleasure in killing objectively bad men, saving future victims while satisfying their own darker impulses. Before pregnancy and playdates, their greatest joy came from killing—and from doing it together. Their intimacy was built on absolute trust, shared secrets, and a kind of moral clarity that only made sense to the two of them (and me, to be honest).

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It Should Have Been You by Andrea Mara: A suburban nightmare fueled by gossip, boredom, and bad timing

In It Should Have Been You by Andrea Mara, a single, careless message detonates inside a pristine, affluent neighborhood—and what follows is a sharp reminder that the most dangerous places are often the ones that look the safest. This latest thriller from the #1 international bestselling author of All Her Fault leans hard into what I like to call Suburban Gothic, where the manicured lawns and friendly group chats conceal resentment, entitlement, and secrets desperate to stay buried.

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Susan is a tired, overwhelmed mother on maternity leave, the kind of woman who feels invisible and slightly feral after too many sleepless nights. When she vents to her sisters about her neighbors—only to accidentally send the message to the entire local WhatsApp group—the damage is instant and irreversible. Even though she deletes it, the truth has already escaped, and the neighborhood’s fragile sense of civility begins to crack.

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Darkrooms by Rebecca Hannigan: A gripping Irish mystery with unforgettable, flawed women

On the night of the Summer Solstice in 1999, nine-year-old Roisin O’Halloran vanished into the Hanging Woods, a copse that had terrified generations of children in the small Irish town of Bannakilduf. Twenty years later, her disappearance remains a shadow over the town—and over the two women now drawn together to uncover the truth: Roisin’s older sister, Deedee, a rookie cop barely holding herself together, and Caitlin, Roisin’s childhood best friend and a petty criminal with a penchant for deception and risky behavior. In Darkrooms, Rebecca Hannigan delivers a lush, moody thriller that explores guilt, justice, and the dangerous ways past traumas shape the present.

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If you’re a fan of unlikeable characters and unreliable narrators, this novel is made for you. Caitlin lies, steals, and teeters on the edge of self-destruction, and you’re never quite sure whether to believe her confessions—or whether they hint at something even darker.

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Holidays, Reading

Comfort reads and quiet creativity: finding peace in a busy season

When life speeds up, it’s tempting to set reading and writing aside until “things calm down.” But this season rarely slows — and maybe it’s not supposed to. Instead, it’s the perfect opportunity to carve out small pockets of quiet and reconnect with the stories and ideas that bring you joy.

Combine reading with social time this winter season!

The shorter days and long to-do lists can drain our energy, but they can also push us to slow down in small ways. Curl up with a comfort read that makes you exhale. Revisit an old favorite or try something cozy and atmospheric. For writers, even a single paragraph or a page in a day counts. Sometimes creativity thrives in small, stolen moments.

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